Then there was the old tale of family feuds &mdash the Begum&rsquos stepson Zafar Khan became a powerful foe when he, along with her principal lieutenant, and a spurned lover, began to conspire with her battalions. Married again to another charming Frenchman, the Begum considered surrender to the Sindhias on condition that she could keep her private property. But this led to revolt, and the Begum and her husband fled by night, making a Romeo and Juliet-esque suicide pact as they were pursued. Each attempted to kill him/herself when they thought the other was dead. The Begum failed when her dagger glanced off a rib. In the spirit of the times, she was then tied to a gun carriage and exposed to the sun for seven days without food or drink, until the rejected admirer came to her rescue. No wonder then, that the Begum, Elizabeth-like, decided to abstain from lovers and be a ruler first and last, ruling on till, in her eighties, when she died after a brief illness. In Sardhana, by her church, she lies buried.