Sinlasone Soumpholphakdy laughs with disarming regularity but when he speaks it is of serious things. Let&rsquos just call him S. So S is the proprietor of Sala Prabang, a boutique hotel in the world heritage town of Luang Prabang, and my host. Lao has the unfortunate distinction of being the most bombed country on the planet. But you wouldn&rsquot know it, sitting by the Mekong in this quaint, rapturous town. &ldquoWe don&rsquot talk about the war because it was a time of suffering,&rdquo says S. I hurl my next naïve question at him. Aren&rsquot the Laotians angry with the Americans &ldquoThe people were too busy saving their lives. They didn&rsquot even know who was bombing them,&rdquo says S. This with a wide smile. He points to the languid Mekong, the misty mountains beyond, the colonial mansions lining the quiet street. Watching the river in this jewel-like town, with bracing Lao coffee to set the conversation flowing, war is indeed a distant drum.