The night before Eid-ul-Fitr, on November 23rd 1938, my sister and I had mehendi on our hands. After a bath we had our hair dried with oudh ki dhuan. In the morning we dressed in new clothes, mojris and brocade topis and then set off early with my father to reach the Idgah near Mir Alam Talab by 10am. The grounds outside the wall of the Idgah were thronged with automobiles, and inside on the carpets in the shade of the qannats was a blur of strangers&mdashand at least as many of my father&rsquos friends.